Players Don’t Play For Keeps

By popular demand, the first Bachelor reality series psychological reveal!

A 'Bachelor' a Day Keeps Your Wedding Day Away! (Categories based on Don’t Sleep With Him Yet, Step 3 “Hard Truths: All About Men and Which to Avoid”)

Blake Horstman: PLAYER

A player, whose primary goal is his own sexual gratification, will do whatever it takes to sleep with you before soon devaluing you and moving onto someone else. Blake slept with two women (former Bachelor contestants Kristina Schulman and Caelynn Miller-Keyes) a day apart at this year’s Stagecoach music festival months before coming on Bachelor in Paradise; both women subsequently communicated to Blake in an early episode of the show that they’d felt betrayed, hurt, and humiliated by his actions at Stagecoach. What’s worse, when the women each independently confronted him, Blake initially denied that he did anything wrong (especially to Kristina). That’s because players feel no guilt about how they operate! He even tried to hook up with Hannah Godwin on Bachelor in Paradise, but unlike the other two, she didn’t fall for his BS. (Note: For UCLA research-based findings on why players typically get bored with a woman soon after first intercourse, see “Players” section of Step 3.)